Empathy vs Sympathy

As you all know, I completely adore and respect Dr Brené Brown.
This is an animation of one of her talks about the difference between empathy and sympathy:

Well, I'm trying to be empathetic, but I often pull out the sympathetic, because wait, that's better than apathetic, right? Yeah, sometimes, "At least I'm not being apathetic, would you like a sandwich?" is the best I can do. And you know what? It's OKAY!